From the time that I was very young, music was an integral part of my life. I began violin lessons at a very young age - thanks to the generosity of my parents next door neighbour who was a brilliant teacher.
My lessons were each Saturday morning at the Royal Conservatory on Bloor Street in Toronto. Although I was likely too young to really appreciate all that I was given, at that time, even to this day, I know that the experience elevated my love for music and fuelled my desire to be immersed in it.
My teacher, Jim Coles, had been a high school music teacher in Toronto who went on to work with the ministry of Education of Ontario in music. He conducted the Ottawa Civic Symphony Orchestra from 1969 through 1975 and subsequently held conducting positions with numerous orchestras in the Kingston / Quinte regions. More recently he has been an important member and contributor to the Kingston Arts Council as well.
He made violins in his basement when we were kids. I remember the parts and pieces hanging and drying on the downstairs clothes line!
My genetic love for music -
my paternal grandfather was the Pipe Major of the Queen's University Pipe Band for many years and he taught the better part of a generation of student pipers in his home in Kingston, was initalized by these wonderful lessons and by a remarkable and generous man.
A few years later, when I entered Junior High School
(at a time that we were privileged and lucky enough to be provided with musical instruments and teaching) prepped to move right into my comfort zone with the violin. The teacher, unimpressed with my Conservatory background, took one look at my hands which were a bit larger than most and immediately assigned me the Double Bass, standing in the corner of the music room.
What was searing disappointment quickly turned into a profound passion and affection for an instrument which few understood or appreciated. I spent the next 7 years playing the string bass in both chamber and symphony orchestral settings as well as in jazz, blues, rock and folk frameworks.
From there it was natural to pick up the bass guitar, the guitar, the tenor banjo, piano, a few years working on drums and then an insatiable appetite took me to wind instruments including the flute, clarinet and trombone (the latter, a cherished antique inherited from my grandfather about 30 years ago).
I just plain loved anything to do with Music.
Not only did I love to play but I loved even more to listen and play. All the way through university, I would sit up through most of the night with home-made headphones (made from two coat hangers and speakers removed from a small stereo) on my head and my guitar in hand. I wanted to play everything I heard and I would listen over and over again until I found the right chord or note.
Eric Clapton was my inspiration - I loved everything he did but it really didn't matter, in the end. It could've been anything from Jethro Tull to Yes to John Sebastian to the Stones. If it could be played - I loved to listen to it and even more to play it.
Camp was a great place for music as well since it was such an important part of life there too. We played and sang folk songs - which I really did love - and then as staff we listened to the tunes of the day which in my time there included Three Dog Night, CSNY, Clapton, The Stones, Joni... and all the artists of Woodstock.
I long for those days. Years have gone by without picking up an instrument - without listening to my favourite tunes - there just doesn't seem to be time anymore to get lost in the music of a great artist.
I will find that time again and find the reason to pick up a guitar and strum a few chords - because without it, I fear that I am neglecting to fill my life completely. And that is something that I no longer want to do.